i'm new and i'm not sure if its hard to change a starter. (car had only about 45k) ??
i'm deciding on whether to go :

-bosch reman
-nsa NEW
-toyota OEM

im scared of remans, but they carry a 1 year warranty and cost about $140 here for the bosch brand. i no wanan go beck/arnley (they failed) on me.

any ideas?

i got a bosch 1...it come with lifetime warranty its only cost me around 170 at pepboys

Its not to hard to change the starter on a camry, in fact ive never seen an easier car to change it on. It is right up top where you can reach it without crawling underneath. Just disconnect the battery and unbolt it.
Id go with the toyota OEM if the prices the same. Bosch ive heard both good things and bad things about but if it has a lifetime warranty they probably build them to last, something you cant find too often anymore.